Ah, New Years....

To some, New Years Eve is a night to get drunk, be with friends and celebrate. To other's New Years means a second chance, starting over, a clean slate. And to a lot of people, New Years is a time to set goals to be accomplished in the upcoming year. 

I personally fall into none of the above categories...

I hate that people use a new year as a reason to change something(s) about their lives that could have easily been worked on prior to the calendar change. You want to lose weight? Well, why not start right away? Quit smoking? Again, what's stopping you from achieving that now? Seriously, why can't people take the appeal of New Years resolutions and just start being better RIGHT NOW????

That also goes along with the whole second chance, clean slate business. Why does a new year have to begin for people to feel like they can start over? If you want to change something and being anew, do it NOW!!!!

Lastly, I absolutely cannot stand how New Years is hyped up as a party night. I feel that it leads to many a drunk driver on the road, idiots that are obnoxiously trashed at cocktail parties, and unwanted new years kisses. I think this last thing may be the reason for this blog rant. My ideal New Years Eve would be to stay in, with my husband and my dogs, order a pizza and watch a movie while having some drinks. We wouldn't be out on the scene, true. However, we would be with the most important person in our life and still have a good time. Not to mention that we would be home and safe.

Matt has volunteered us to go to a cocktail party tonight. Sure, not so bad (minus the mere fact that he didn't feel the need to ask what I would like to do) I guess it could be fun. I had planned to be DD so that we wouldn't have to worry about getting a cab from YOLO and be able to get home safely. I was already edgy about driving though, just because of all the idiots that still choose to drink and drive. Now, it's going to be foggy tonight. Another thing that makes me anxious. To sum it up, I'd be sober around a load of drunk yahoos so that I could be responsible and drive us home, yet when I drove home I wouldn't be able to see anything let alone a drunkie driving toward me because it's foggy. Sound like fun? I don't think so!! So, my Mom so graciously offered to stay at our house with the dogs so that Matt and I could stay out at the house where the party is being held. This way, we could both have a few drinks, ring in the New Year (Whoopidy Doo!) and stay put in an environment that will not have us at the morgue come morning. Upon mentioning to Matt that we should stay put, I got an answer of, "We'll talk about it later..." Hmmm....indeed we will!

To be continued....

My 2008

1. What did you do in 2008 that you’d never done before?
I got married!

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I didn't have any last year....still deciding about this year.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Nope, that's what 2009 will be for. Bonnie, Sara, Mica and Jordan are all having babies!!

4. Did anyone close to you die?
No, thank goodness.

5. What countries did you visit?
Mexico for my Honeymoon.

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008?
A new car.

7. What dates from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

May 2 - My brother's car accident

May 31 - Our wedding day

August 9 - Carrie and Zach's wedding

September 20 - Nick and Jordan's wedding

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Making a decision about what to be when I grow up.

9. What was your biggest failure?
Nothing comes to mind....yay for me!

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
No I didn't.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Probably something for the wedding.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
My husband's and my brother's

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?
Eh, let's not go there.

14. Where did most of your money go?
Bills and the wedding and honeymoon.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Being married of course. And also getting Macy and traveling, as well as the other two weddings I participated in. And las but not least, the 2009 babies.

16. What song will always remind you of 2008?
All Summer Long - Kid Rock

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? happier
b) thinner or fatter? slightly fatter - apparently marriage will do that to you!
c) richer or poorer? about the same

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
The boat.

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Worry.

20. How did you spend Christmas?
Lots of time with family on both sides, and with a few friends.

21. Did you fall in love in 2008?
Over and over, every day.

22. What was your favorite TV program?
Private Practice and Lipstick Jungle.

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
I hate the word hate, but I've always had a strong dislike for the people that I currently feel that way about.

24. What was the best book you read?
Marley and Me

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Nothing new.

26. What did you want and get?
The best husband in the world.

27. What did you want and not get?
A wedding dress that I loved.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Sex and the City was a good one.

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
My actual birthday was on Easter, so we made the family rounds. I turned 23.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Winning the lottery.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008?
Getting better.

32. What kept you sane?
My co-workers.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Kate Walsh.

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
Listening to uninformed people talk about the election.

35. Who did you miss?
My Dad.

36. Who was the best new person you met?
No one new, but getting to be better friends with Tyler was great!

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008.
You can't always have control, so just enjoy the ride - bumps and all.

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

Someday when I'm awfully lone

And the world is cold

I will feel a glow

Just thinking of you

And the way you look tonight

Just for fun......

.....I'm making a list of things I hate, followed by things I love....

Things I HATE:

Driving in the fog. When people think they know something about everything (ie know it alls). Black licorice. People that interrupt. Windy days. When animals or babies are hurt. Beets. Spiders. That there are people who would be wonderful parents, and can't have children and people who are terrible parents, yet can pop babies out like a gumball machine. That there are hungry people in the world. Stupid drivers. Doing dishes. That my Dad is not still here. Being cold. Watching golf on TV. People who cannot be compassionate. Public restrooms. That my husband has to endure getting a shot once every week. Critcal and judgemental people. The Wal-Mart parking lot and check stands. People that always have to be talking and can't just be quiet. Being sick. Techno music. Obnoxious people. Raw chicken. That my house will never be the same kind of clean now that we have dogs. That I'm not closer with my brother. When people hurtfully make fun of others. That I can't save every homeless animal there is. Sand in my shoes. The cry a baby makes when they are hurting. The smell of gasoline. When my Mom says that I "turned my nose up at it". That Bonnie does not live closer. Bad friends. The Sees candies that have marshmellows in the middle. Liars. Parallel parking. Cleaning out my closet. Shoes that are super cute, but unwearable because they hurt your feet after 20 minutes. The snow. Monday mornings. Dishes in the sink. Flies. People who don't know how to drive boats and be courteous and jetskiers. The way my heart twists when Matt cries. Things that I have no control over. When people blame. Drama queens. 

Things I LOVE:

My husband, Mom, Brother, and the rest of our family and friends. Our house. Being with my entire family on holidays. That Matt puts up with me being sensitive. Snuggling on the couch when it's raining. Curling up with a huge blanket and watching a movie. Sushi. Decorating the Christmas tree with Matt. Our neighborhood. Our dogs. My orange laundry room. Hot showers. My Shows - 90210, Private Practice, Grey's and Lipstick Jungle. The beach. A fountain soda when I'm hungover. Meaningful talks. Stephanie's laugh. Pictures. Vodka. Old movies. Swimming. That I rescued a Doberman. Wrapping Christmas presents. Clean sheets. Appetizers. Going on trips with Matt. Concerts. Reading. Shopping with my Mom. The sound of highheels on a hard surface. Summer time. The cabin. Random acts of kindness. People watching. The boat. Hanging with James and Tiff, talking and drinking. Barns. Almond Rocha. The ride back into the launch after being on the boat all day. Babies. The smell of fireworks. Veterans. Long weekends. San Luis Obispo. Staying in hotels. Weddings. Farmer's Markets. Traveling. Finding a really great bar that makes the best bloody marys. My birthday. Dolphins. Unconditional love. Pulling into our culdesac and seeing Matt's truck in the driveway. When my dogs listen. That Matt made one of my best friends my sister too. That my Dad wrote letters to us before he died. When my family talks about my grandparents. The fourth of july. Tropical resorts. Memories. BBQ's. The country. Dancing.  Getting dressed up. Cooking. The feeling of productivity. Big purses. Being there for someone. God. Getting a card in the mail. Cocktail parties. Green pastures, surrounded by white fences. Our Friend's Thanksgiving. My strength. The way Matt proposed to me. The way that I feel when I walk out of the office and to my car on a Friday afternoon. Sleeping. Going to Jason's with Matt on Christmas Eve. Popcorn. Rollercoasters. Making someone smile. When my toenails are painted. Going out to dinner. Shell Beach with Matt and a six pack. The first minute of the New Year. The last day of school. When someone unexpectedly makes my day. Traditions. A full tank of gas and a clean car. The way my hair feels right after I get it cut. Girls nights. Music. Rodeos. The Fair. A good bottle of wine. Working with Amy. Being married. Having the family, friends and life that I do.

I can't believe it's December!!!

Only 24 more days until Christmas!!!! To be honest, I've never considered Christmas a favorite holiday. I've always felt that it was played up way too much, that people spent too much money and stressed themselves out, and didn't really appreciate the true meaning of Christmas. This year, however, I'm really looking forward to Christmas. Maybe it's something to do with havinga husband and the prospect of having kids someday to see get excited about Santa. Who knows!!

Anyway, we started off our holiday season with four Thanksgivings. The first was the Friday before the actual holiday with Matt's Dad and Step-Mom (Jeff and Helen) and all of the kids. The steps were going to be elsewhere on the actual holiday, but still wanted to celebrate with us so that's why we started early. It was a great night!!! The next day, we did our third annual Friends Thanksgiving/Jason's birthday party. That was also very fun!! The real Thanksgiving found Matt and I splitting the day with each side of our families. Everything was lovely. We ate too much, drank too much and sat around and did nothing, but we loved every minute!!

Being lucky enough to have a four day weekend, we did have some motivation to be a little productive.....I painted our laundry room orange and Matt put up our Christmas lights. Both projects looked great by the end and we're very happy. 

That's my update for now because I'm boring!!!